What I do.
From 2008-2010, I taught fifth grade. Hardest and best job of my life.
I think of my kids—now more than fully grown adults—often.
What would I tell them I’m doing now?
Something like:
Okay, imagine two people or two companies get into a big disagreement
like “you broke our deal” or “you owe me money” — and they can't work it out by just talking.
So they take the fight to court, or threaten to take it to court, where a judge (and sometimes a jury) decides who’s right.
A litigator is a lawyer and a detective.
She fights for one side in that disagreement, by:
Investigating: Dig through emails, contracts, and documents to find clues that help her side’s story
Interviewing: Ask people tough questions (this is called a “deposition”) to find out what really happened
Writing: Create detailed papers explaining to the judge why her side should win
Arguing: Stand up in court and explain her case out loud, answering the judge’s questions on the spot
"Big law" just means she works at a huge law firm, like hundreds of lawyers, usually helping big companies with really complicated, high-stakes fights.
Think less “yelling in a courtroom like on TV” and more “solving a giant puzzle with thousands of pieces, then explaining the answer clearly enough that a judge who’s never seen the puzzle before understands it.”
It takes a LOT of reading, a lot of writing, and being really good at explaining complicated things simply, kind of like being a translator between “confusing business stuff” and “plain English.”
Sounds about right.
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