Time

“How do you have the time [to do all that]?”

I get this question at least once a week—some people are genuinely curious, others are a bit more skeptical.

My answer: I am extremely intentional (some might say obsessive) about how I manage and spend my time.

It really is that simple.

We make time for what we prioritize.*

One pro of the billable hour is that I can see exactly where my work time goes. I know where I stand against my goals and my firm’s expectations. That visibility helps me manage my calendar, client work, professional brand, and all the other obligations that come with this career.

When I do it right, most days I have enough hours left to have dinner and play a game with my husband, play tennis or work out, take a nap, relax with my dogs, read for fun, or learn something new. Not every day, of course—but that’s okay. I know what I’ve signed up for, and I know what I’m working toward.

Recently, I reminded my husband (and myself), “My career will always come first.” He said, “I’ve always known that.”

That kind of communication is important.

Regularly checking in with your supporters, friends, and family—and with yourself—helps make sure everyone is on the same page, and that your goals and priorities are aligned (or adjusted as life changes, which it will).

Intentional time management isn’t about doing it all, all the time.

It’s about being honest about your priorities, managing your energy, communicating clearly, and making space for the things and people that matter—to you.

If you want more time for what matters, start by getting clear on what you’re working toward, and be willing to adjust as life changes. The rest is up to you and your daily choices.

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*I also want to acknowledge privilege: I have a lot of support, both personally and professionally. That’s a benefit of being part of the big law machine. I’ve also made the personal choice not to have children, which of course impacts my freedom and flexibility. I know that’s not everyone’s path. And, still: I see many working parents achieving extraordinary things with their time and careers—often because they, too, are intentional and mindful about how they spend it.

Disclaimer: The views and opinions expressed here are solely my own and do not necessarily reflect the official policy or position of Husch Blackwell LLP or any other organization. Examples are generalized and do not reflect current client matters or firm positions.